Attachment repair is needed to stabilize spiritual realization in daily life The Gap Between Knowing and Living Most serious spiritual traditions, across cultures and centuries, converge on a remarkably similar recognition: that reality is not what it appears to be. The separate self we take ourselves to be — isolated, fragile, struggling alone in an indifferent universe — is not the whole story. Beneath the noise of the mind, beneath the cycle of grasping and fear, there is